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The Personal
Workshop
What is
the purpose of Personal Workshop?
To help each participant grieve and
complete their relationship to the pain and unfinished business caused by
a death, divorce or any other significant emotional loss.
When is it time to
do my "grief work?" This is the most difficult
question facing grievers. Part of the problem stems from the biggest
single inaccurate idea that we were all socialized to believe: that
"time heals all wounds." Time does not heal. Actions can help
discover and complete unfinished emotional business. When can I begin to
discover and complete all of the things that I wish had ended
"different, better or more," and all of the broken "hopes,
dreams, and expectations" about the future? The answer is
immediately. Waiting to do grief work is potentially dangerous. Most
likely you’ve heard that grievers tend to create larger than life memory
pictures in which they either "enshrine or bedevil" the person
who died. This phenomenon increases with time, making it more difficult to
discover the "truth" within the relationship.
How does Grief
Recovery® differ from therapy? Since there are so many
different types of therapies, it’s difficult to give a singular answer.
Grief is the normal and natural reaction to loss; grief is not, of itself,
a pathological condition nor a personality disorder. Grief
Recovery®
is primarily an educational, or re-educational experience, based on the
fact that most of us were never taught effective tools for dealing with
grief. Most participants find that their subsequent therapy is enhanced by
their experience in the workshop. In fact, many therapists refer clients
to the workshop.
What are some
tipoffs that unresolved grief is the cause of my discomfort?
Unresolved grief tends to take people "out of the moment," that
is to cause you to be off in conversations with people who are no longer
physically there with you. [This is not limited to death. You are equally
likely to be lost in a conversation with a former spouse, still living,
who is not physically present].
Assuming that your physical health is okay,
unresolved grief tends to drain you of energy. Unresolved grief tends to
close our hearts down. Since we’re incomplete with a prior loss, we
almost automatically "protect" ourselves by not loving again.
More accurately, we limit our loving exposure and thereby doom the new
relationship to fail. Commonly, grievers will hide their true feelings for
fear of being judged. Where isolation is the problem, participation is a
major component of the solution. The Grief
Recovery® Workshop is the
ultimate participation aimed at discovering and completing the unfinished
emotional business that fuels the isolation.
What is the
difference between Grief
Recovery® and other loss and grief
programs? Many grief groups provide an environment for people
to verbalize the thoughts and feelings they experience following a loss.
While there is benefit to that kind of expression, often it is not enough.
Generally it will have a short-term benefit and not address the underlying
issues of "incomplete emotional" communications that sustain
unresolved grief. The Grief
Recovery® Workshop addresses
the incompleteness so that there is long-term benefit, completing the pain
and the unfinished emotions.
The Grief
Recovery® Personal Workshop This powerful and
dynamic experience is the most productive workshop being offered anywhere
on people’s reaction to loss. The workshop is the most sensible,
accessible and authentic plan available for recovery from loss. For anyone
who is grieving, the Personal Workshop offers Grief
Recovery®
tools that work for any kind of serious loss. Workshops include
educational and experiential sessions dealing with Concepts of Grief,
Concepts of Recovery, How Incomplete Loss Occurs, Grief
Recovery®
Principles, Identifying Incomplete Losses, and Moving Beyond Loss.
Enrollment is limited to 20 people.
Workshops fill up quickly, so reserve your space early. The cost is $695
US or $795 CDN and a deposit of $195 is required to reserve your place.
Personal Workshop Schedule
Grief Recovery®
is
a registered trademark of The Grief Recovery Institute®.
Our Certified personnel use
this distinctive mark
to announce their association with
The Grief Recovery Institute® and to distinguish themselves
from others who help grievers.
While the words grief and recovery may be generic, the phrase Grief Recovery®
is unique
to the principles and actions outlined in The Grief Recovery Handbook and
all other literature
and programs affiliated with The Grief Recovery Institute®. Look
for Grief Recovery®
- it is
your assurance of the highest level of training in the area of helping
grievers complete the pain
caused by significant emotional losses.
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